Jillian Hart & Janet Tronstad, Real and Believable, Just Like Their Books!


Authors Show True Colors, Personalities Bright Like Their  Stories

Authors Show True Colors, Personalities Bright Like Their
Stories

Even though it was on the cool side in Spokane this May, there was no damper on the rendezvous that induced online friends from all over the country plus Australia to attend.  Last weekend eleven women gathered and stayed in a local hotel to enjoy an Author, Writer, and Reader Retreat.

The attendees were also honored to share some delightful party times at the home of Author, Jillian Hart and with Author/Co-Hostess, Janet Tronstad.  Now…have you ever heard authors give a partial reading of a new work in an intimate group, a book before it is published?   That is exactly what Jill and Janet gave their admirers in their own voices.  The character’s personalities took hold in the “windmills of the minds” of the ardent listeners.

One of the highlights of the time together, was the arrival of a special online friend from Australia, that we call Ausjenny!  She is an avid reader, especially of Jill and Janet’s books.  Most of the group met on “Goodreads” or the “Harlequin/Love Inspired Community Forum“.

The Davenport Hotel, downtown Spokane, served Tea and Lunch to the group in the Safari Room on  Monday afternoon.  Guests enjoyed a nice array of specialty foods and desserts.  Many photos were taken during the last scheduled event to take home to reminisce.  Two husbands attended the Tea, and one husband attended all the other functions as well.  How nice that the group got to put a real face to each name during the visits as well as gaining a feel for each personality.

If you would like to visit these authors online, check out Goodreads.com

Go to Groups, then “Janet Tronstad-Dry Creek Stories”and also look for category “Jillian’s Corner”!

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AUTHOR INTERVIEW With Janet Thompson, Now Idaho Based


Author

Janet Thompson

Thank you, Janet, for agreeing to answer a few questions from our readers in the community.  We can see the compassion you have for women as they go through various trials in their life.  I read your book and I saw your heart.  Now this takes us to the first question posed:

(1) Janet, what inspired you to write a book about living with a stay-at-home husband?
Dear God, He’s Home! is the third in a “Dear God,” series. The first two are Dear God, It’s Cancer: A Companion Guide for Women on the Breast Cancer Journey and Dear God, Why Can’t I Have a Baby? A Companion Guide for Couples on the Infertility Journey. Each of the “Dear God” books mentor women who are on a journey that I’ve been on myself. I know the loneliness and need for support and understanding that isn’t always available, so I write to mentor and encourage these women. The best compliment is when someone tells me it was if I was sitting right beside her as she read my books.

In Dear God, He’s Home!, I chronicle the difficulties and joys my husband and I encountered during the various seasons of him being a stay-at-home man: multiple layoffs, illness, disability, and now, retirement. I understand the strain on a marriage of a husband suddenly being home 24/7, regardless of the reason. As in all of my books, I offer various perspectives from other women who are willing to share their stories to help others going through something similar.

(2) Tell us a little about your research. How did you encounter other wives with stay-at-home husbands? What struck you about their experiences?
Whenever I mention the title of this book, wives smirk with raised eyebrows and knowingly remark, “Boy, do I have a story for you!” “I need this book.” “I know someone who could use this book.” Or “I’m going to need this book soon, write fast!”
When I sent out an email or Facebook request for stories of women with a husband home due to retirement, illness, disability, out of work, home office, the military . . . whatever reason…the stories flowed into my inbox and my ears.
I noticed that whatever circumstances brought a husband home, most couples admit they didn’t prepare for a time of being together 24/7!

(3) What would you say is the most common struggle wives have with their stay-at-home man? What is the most common struggle that husbands have as a result of becoming a stay-at-home man?
Regardless of the reason for this season, wives of stay-at-home men experience similar difficulties, hardships, and blessings. The specific circumstances might be different, but the heart issues are the same.

The struggle I heard most often from wives with a stay-at-home man: he’s invading “my space.” They recount the loss of my home, my space, my privacy, my domain, my downtime, a place to call my own. As if that weren’t enough, looking for something to do with all his newfound free time, the husband may decide to rearrange her routine, her kitchen—her life! One wife lamented that her CEO retired husband was “organizing” her kitchen and alphabetizing her spices. Another wife compared it to her going into his office, sitting in his chair, and rearranging his desk for him—“naught.”

The wife may also feel like her work load is increasing while his is decreasing, especially if she is still working or has to go back to work to support the family. The dismal prospect of him expecting lunch every day was lamented by the majority of wives.
At the same time, the stay-at-home husband is now trying to find his space in what used to be her space and that can lead to crowded space. Military families call this the “reentry phase” or reintegration—fitting back into “normal” home life and society. In Called To Serve, Lt. Col. Tony and Penny Monetti, who are endorsers of Dear God, He’s Home!, quote one returning solider who said he felt like “a background wall in his own home.” An apt word picture for any stay-at-home man.  The home balance of authority feels off kilter when a husband is home.

(4) Speaking of military, how can your book help women whose husbands are returning from deployment?
Military wives would be good mentors to every woman with a stay-at-home husband because they experience the reintegration process every time their husband returns home from deployment. The wife has been in charge while her husband is gone and they both have to figure out how to transition him back into the home schedule and activities, and she has to relinquish responsibilities taken over in his absence. The chapter topics and Mentoring Moments in the book offer encouragement and ideas for dealing with specific issues.

Dear God, He’s Home! shares stories from military wives and their coping tips, which are often applicable to every wife with a stay-at home man. For example, Kathryn shared: “In talking to many military wives, one of the biggest challenges of a loved one returning home is meeting him right where he’s at and adjusting to the “new normal.” Every woman with a stay-at-home man experiences a “new normal.”

Also in the “Sanity Tools” section of the book there is a section dedicated to support for military couples.

(5) How can readers benefit from the examples and advice you offer?
I include stories and scenarios from a variety of perspectives, not just my own so that the reader will surely find an example and situation she can identify with. Everyone sharing in the book, including my husband and myself, are open, vulnerable, sometimes raw, and often humorous.

I don’t want the reader to only rely on my suggestions and advice. Each chapter includes “God’s Love Letter to You,” which is paraphrased and personalized Scripture, and “Let’s Pray” where I pray with the reader. There’s also space for her to write her own “Dear God,” and practical application tips are provided in the Sanity Tools section.

My husband has been a stay-at-home man numerous times during our marriage and I understand the stress it puts on a relationship. Couples like us and those who share their stories in the book, who have experienced and survived the stay-at-home transition, can reach out to offer seasoned encouragement, tips, and prayer for couples currently going through it.

(6) Who is your biggest supporter in your writing?
I dedicated this book to my stay-at-home man, Dave, who selflessly allows me to write and speak vulnerably and honestly about our messes and our miracles in sharing our story. I call him the “hero” of the book, but he laughingly refers to himself as “the sacrificial lamb.” He wrote the Epilogue and I think the way he signed it gives a window into the kind of support I have from him: Janet’s encourager, cheerleader, loving and devoted –stay-at-home man, Dave.

(7) What is your passion and why?
Mentoring is truly a passion, a purpose, and a mission that God put on my heart when I first went into ministry 18 years ago. After graduating from seminary, I asked God to use me in the business world where I had spent most of my career and was familiar and comfortable, rather than in women’s ministry where I had no experience. But as He often does, God put me in a ministry where I would have to depend completely on Him in starting the Woman to Woman Mentoring Ministry; and He soon gave me a heart for women and the issues we all deal with in everyday life. My passion is to help women learn to: Share Life’s Experiences and God’s Faithfulness. That’s my “tag line” and what I try to do in my books and speaking.

All my books have a theme of mentoring from experiences that others and I have encountered with the goal of offering hope, help, and encouragement to the reader. For example, I also wrote Praying for Your Prodigal Daughter (I had one), and the subtitle of that book is Hope, Help & Encouragement for Hurting Parents.

My passion and mission is to help other women learn how to use the good, the bad, the ugly life experiences to reach out and help another woman going through similar circumstances. It always helps to know we’re not alone and someone else has survived what we’re going through now.

Read a snippet of Dear God, He’s Home! A Woman’s Guide to Her Stay-at-Home Man.
To Purchase: Available at all bookstores, online bookstores such as Amazon, and signed at Janet’s website store.

Janet and her husband now live near Boise, Idaho.  Please check out her site for conferences and other speaker events close to you!  Janet’s professional website is womantowomanmentoring.com.

“SHADOW OF REALITY” by Donna Fletcher Crow


Educated Christians still on their journeys of discovery of God and His will for their lives, include a weekend of fashion, fun, mystery, drama and MURDER! The line between the drama and real murder will keep your interest piqued and you will not want to tarry with this book. In Donna Crow style, her imagery and similes, stand out very tall.

Because of Donna’s great knowledge and experience with England and Englishmen and her extensive travel in general, her story flourishes and almost dances on the page. The message of “real love” over “infatuation” lends to the story with depth. With my love for fashion, I enjoyed the costumes and colorful descriptions and creativity. The medical side may draw you also if you have an interest in forensics.

As the story ends with friendship complimenting human love, I had a warm, overall feeling of “Good conquering Evil” and a wonderful (corrrect) future for each of the characters. Don’t miss out on this superb blend of history, mystery, and love!